3. Admin Lineup. They're really is an exaggeration of just how many admins TTT has. Anyway they join in packs. I don't really feel this is that big of an issue but I'm just saying that TTT is usually only run by 1/2 admin(s) at a time.
I have noticed that the admins have always liked to either go all together or not come at all. I understand that they might not want to be on alone with ~20. I don't blame them, but it can get annoying.
5. I don't feel I'm one with the community of TTT anymore. I'm not young around the 13-15 age group of TTT. I don't share the same ideas of "fun" and all that. That makes sense why I get along much better with older admins like Blade/Scooby. I've played with these guys for days/months before. I love them. When I hop on now, I hardly know anyone other than admins. It's not fun that way.
I think I know what you mean by "fun" and I think TTT does need to chill on it a bit. I find myself doing it a lot too and thinking about it makes me realize of annoying it may become to others.
Just take a break from it, and get what ever you need to do together and finished. I find that TTT likes to have bursts like this